Don't BS a BSer

Usually, it's quite easy to tell bullshit from sincere words, at least if you're realistic. When a boy tells you he wants some space because he loves you too much and is afraid of his overwhelming feelings and all that (though that never really happened to me, I've heard of it), you can just roll your eyes and move on. 

But how about when you feel like what someone says is completely made up and flat out excuses, but you really, really want to believe them. Like when someone tells you they don't write to you much when you're away from each other for a couple of weeks at the time because they miss you so much it hurts to think about you and there's nothing to say besides that they miss you. It's truly very conflicting. Dilemmas like that tend to lead to a lot of forth-and-back reasoning in my head. 

I usually conclude that I'm over-thinking it all though. Girls interpret too much.

Don't assume.
Don't demand. 
Don't question.
Don't ask.
Just leave it. 
If it's meant to be, it will happen.