lördag 17 december 2011

The Game



It seems I'm one of few girls who know the rules.
See, some boys, not to say most boys, maybe I should lump them as the type of boy I want, basically just wants to hook up. They're nice, we hang out, we hook up, but they're not relationship material.
From their perspective, I assume I must be the coolest chick ever. I don't mind crossing friendship boundaries and I'm not bothered about commitment.
The only thing I can't stand though, is when they start getting cocky about it, like if they badmouth me to their friends, assume we can hook up whenever they want, or stop hanging out as friends, that we just hook up whenever we meet. That's not the deal.

Everyone just kind of has their own rules, as long as you agree there shouldn't be a problem. Of course, there's the factor of knowing something with your mind but not with your emotions.

The point is, if we're primarily friends, we can secondarily sleep together.
I can base sex on a friendship.
I'd just never base a friendship on sex. You need to be nice, even if you're an asshole by definition.

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