The difference

Making a boy whose only interested in sex go away by telling him it's relationship or nothing doesn't really work when he makes the immediate counter-suggestion of an unofficial relationship. "I'd be all yours".

That phrase got too much for me, I told him I'd think about it.

I've thought about it, and even though I have that weird pull towards him like it's awkward to be around him if I can't be so close that I can feel his body heat, Im not one to get stupid just because I'm crushing on the guy.

I called his bluff and asked: If he'd be all mine, and not be with anyone else, why doesn't he want to be with me officially? Whats the difference?

He doesn't want that he said. I almost responded with "shame, because I want that", but I didn't want to give him the satisfaction of confirmation.

There are two reasons why a boy wants an open relationship:

1)He's ashamed of you

2)He wants to see other girls too

Either way, there are a lot of horny boys out there; what makes him special?

He thinks he's a player, who can pull this off with girls like me.

I'm perfectly convinced I could do better.

That's the difference.

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