21 days to self-improvement

So, it's been a while.

Long story short: I broke up with M, and since then I've been seeing this guy I grew really fond of. Unfortunately, it got out of hand and we ended it (he ended it) a week and a half ago. We then met up to talk about things and agreed that we'd take another 2-3 weeks, and then meet up and see if we could find a way of seeing each other that works, since the way things were didn't work.

I read on some dating advice website that 2-4 weeks of no contact can really help once trying to get things back on track, and this time should also be spent improving on yourself, getting everything in order, so that once the time is up, you wouldn't be emotional and desperate, but actually confident and a better version of yourself, and able to make good decisions about what's worth saving.

So, basically, counting down from 21, this will be my 21-day journey towards a better version of myself, in every way I can think of.
Once I'm there, the guy-trouble will figure itself out.