Capturing a man

“You know it's never fifty-fifty in a marriage. It's always seventy-thirty, or sixty-forty. Someone falls in love first. Someone puts someone else up on a pedestal. Someone works very hard to keep things rolling smoothly; someone else sails along for the ride.” 

First of, I'd just like to say that if you've decided to save yourself for marriage, good for you. Uniting with someone for life and giving them the biggest thing you can give -yourself- then that's beautiful and I'm not saying you're doing anything wrong. 

What pisses me off, though, is the old fashion attitude that if you're not a virgin, or if you have loose morals regarding sex, no man will want you. I mean, naturally, if you go about fucking every guy you see, your stamp of approval will lose some credit, that is to say, if a guy thinks you want to fuck everyone he wont want to be with you, because he wants to feel that you only want to be with him. But refusing sex until marriage because you think that he won't marry you otherwise is not fair to yourself. 
I'm happy that I've gotten an overview of what's out there, because now I know what a genuinely good guy is like, what kind of man I can establish a good relationship with, and I can be with someone knowing that he knows all there is to me, he sees me for who I am, and he still wants to be with me. 

I know that not a lot of people have that sort of old fashion attitude anymore, but I came across it recently and I just thought I'd say something about it.