You remember how I talked about how I hate how I get when I'm in love? Well, I'm there. See, I think about him all the time, which is okay, and I call him almost every day, which is okay too, but what's annoying is how much I obsess over how much I call or text or IM, compared to how much he does. I know it's silly and he doesn't care but to someone who's used to never text first due to the fix idea that the guy doesn't want to talk to you unless he texts first, it matters that lately I've always been the one to start conversations.
It's stupid, I know, I just don't want to come off as eager, and I also don't want to play mind games to make him more possessive of me, like pretending to be a bit into someone else. I like to keep guys on their toes, though, and I don't know how to do that without playing games.
I guess I should just chill out for a bit.
Todays first world problem: I'm too in love with my bf.
I think all girls have the same problem as you when it comes down to looking too eager or desperate or whatever. We have an image to maintain, while guys are used to wooing and doing all the 'dirty work' in a relationship in general, all thanks to our colourful history being paved by chauvinists (this might sound very severe and feminist but it's true).
SvaraRaderaSo don't worry, you're not the only one with this problem. It's also called female pride.